Cheating in a relationship can be a difficult game
to play. To pull it off correctly, he needs to hide all the signs that he is
having an affair. There are many signs to look out for in order to spot a
cheater so be sure to know all of them, especially the subtle ones that he
doesn’t think of. Here are just some of the signs to watch out for in spotting
a cheating partner.
(another related article, 12 Things Men Want Women to do in Relationships)
1. Tax forms
One of the easiest ways to find out if he is
cheating on you is through his tax returns or related forms. Men will often
hide their finances from their partner, because his spending habits are a sure
give away that an affair is in order. So he may often try and hide his return
from your eyes by doing it early, or being over protective about his expenses.
2. Vehicle
There are a number of things to watch out for in
spotting a cheater through his vehicle. One is if the mileage in his vehicle
doesn’t add up to where he claimed he went last night. A second sign to spot is
if the passenger seat is adjusted too short or long for his usual friends.
Another is in the scent of the passenger seat itself, often a woman’s perfume
can stain the seat without being too obvious to him.
3. Work
Often men will claim they are working longer hours
to cover up an affair. This is something to watch for to see if his overtime
hours match his paycheques or tax forms. Another area to watch out for is if
other co-workers are working overtimes hours because the company is genuinely
busy, or if it is just him. Being friends with his co-workers or their wives
can be helpful in finding this out.
Many times his friends aren’t going to feel as
comfortable as he is in lying to you about going around behind your back.
Therefore, his friend’s uneasiness can be a sign that something is up when you
talk with them and ask them the hard hitting questions. Another sign is that
his close friends don’t know where he is when they are usually the ones that
do.
5. The way he acts
When it comes to his behavior, there are a number
of giveaway signs to watch for. Perhaps he acts more distant emotionally or
less responsive with you. It can be that his sex drive is lower than usual, or
seems less interested in you. In his excuses he gives for the time spent away
from you, lying is a hard game to pull off. Watch for holes in his excuses or
lame ones.
6. His phone
His phone can be something to check up on if he is
cheating on you. If you can manage to get a look at his phone bill; expenses,
phone time, or number of text messages can let you know what he is up to. Often
just by knowing his phone number and a few personal details about his life,
phone companies can give you the information without ever knowing who is really
asking. His behavior around his phone can change as well, as he becomes more
protective of it, always having it on him while never letting you see his
phone. These days tracking a person’s location or where they’ve been in the
past month can be easily done through the phone company.
7. Appetite
If his appetite has changed without any other
reason, it can be a sign to watch out for. This is often because he is eating
without you, or snacking before meeting up with her. Being aware of the foods
in the fridge or his breath as well as a miss matched alibi are things that can
give his lying away.
8. Waits before answering your calls
A sign to watch out for is in his behavior
answering your calls. What to look for is if he waits longer than normal before
picking up your calls. This may be because he is waiting for his mistress to be
silent before answering your calls, or perhaps because she doesn’t know that
she’s the mistress, and he’s buying time to get away from her before answering
your calls.
9. Laundry has increased
Seeing if his laundry has increased can be a good
sign to watch for that he may not know about. This is because scent can be a
sure giveaway in the game of cheating. If he is masking her perfume from his
clothes, or he is trying to mask his shampoo scent from the shower he took in
the middle of the day, his laundry loads will increase.
Catching a cheater can be easy because hiding all
of the signs in a cheating relationship can be harder to do than he thought
possible. Often when a woman has a gut feeling that something is wrong, she
should go with her gut feeling. Ranging from his behavior, to his phone calls,
to even his laundry, these are the signs to watch for in a cheating
relationship.
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